Sexual Talk Breakdown
The human mind is one of the most powerful influences over the body it controls. With enough focus and intent, bodily functions can be pushed to their limits or sent into cold storage. The sexual organs are incredibly sensitive to this cranial control, so it’s no surprise that humans frequently communicate feelings, desires, and fantasies through sexual talk in order to encourage arousal in their lovers. If you’ve thought about giving dirty talk a try, you can find hundreds of guides on what to say, but we have some tips on prepping yourself for verbal voluptuousness.
Don’t Be Afraid to Laugh
Eventually, you will have a slip of the tongue or say something that is so awkwardly phrased that you both explode into a fit of giggles just before you reach the other type of explosion. It might be embarrassing in the moment, but sex is inherently an ungraceful proposition from the outset. Being tense while delivering your decadent whispers will make the task more difficult, even if you are playing at a strict and stern teacher.
All Talk? No Game
Despite the way we isolate “dirty talk” as just naughty words spoken into a lover’s ear, the talking itself is just one component of the process. Try to engage all your beau’s senses: guide their view to something that highlights the nature of your talking, set mood music in the background (preferably from a premade playlist), give them a whiff of sexual essence, or add in a spanking session. The overload of sensation will saturate their inner lust more thoroughly.
Embrace Kinks and Fetishes
All of us have triggers that activate our libido, unless you happen to be entirely asexual. It could be things as obvious as the curve of a woman’s hips and the cuteness of a boy’s butt. or it could be more conventionally taboo subject matter. If you know of any to exploit, then feel free to weave them into the session or make one the overlying theme.
No Such Thing as a Bad Time
The great thing about communicating is that we can do it from anywhere these days. A wanton moaning that can barely be heard put right into their ear while in the middle of a restaurant could say more than an hour of extended prose. Just be careful not to take the title of the subsection too literally.
With enough confidence, you can get people to believe you’re a London noblewoman with a banking connection that will increase any money they give you by at least tenfold. People have a tendency to mimic the reactions of those around them, examples being the contagious laugh or yawn. This trait is so effective on the psyche of other humans that the term “con-man” is derived from the phrase “confidence man” for their ability to transfer their projected confidence onto the mark.
When you have the backing of true intent and desire, sexual talk will come to you as long as you focus on the goal of revving up you and your lover.